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Gally<p>Je me demande si il y a des gens ici qui vivent le polyamour depuis un certain temps et avec qui je pourrais discuter.</p><p>De mon côté, ça fait plus de deux ans que je suis dans des relations plurielles, et dans mon entourage proche quelques personnes s'y mettent tout juste, mais avec une vision très différente de la mienne. Et j'aimerais bien entendre des vécus sur du plus long terme, et aussi dans des cas de relations non hétéro.</p><p>C'est votre cas? Ça vous dit qu'on en papote?</p><p><a href="https://corneill.es/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>polyamory</span></a> <a href="https://corneill.es/tags/poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>poly</span></a></p>
Athamanatha<p><a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/MUTUALAID" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MUTUALAID</span></a> <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/URGENT" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>URGENT</span></a> <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/crowdfund" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>crowdfund</span></a></p><p>$235/$2000 needed this week</p><p>WE NEED your help to survive and cover the basic bills! Please help us keep the vehicles we live in road legal and safe. Please help us move towards safety!</p><p>The <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/Vulpibus" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Vulpibus</span></a> is our home, lab on wheels for <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/remotework" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>remotework</span></a> on <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/geneediting" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>geneediting</span></a> tech for <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/healthcare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>healthcare</span></a> <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/adaptation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adaptation</span></a> <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/freedomofform" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>freedomofform</span></a>, hackerspace for <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/skillsharing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>skillsharing</span></a> with everyone, and <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/transrescue" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transrescue</span></a> vehicle. Help us help more people by first helping ourselves!</p><p>We are <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trans</span></a>, <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>poly</span></a>, <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/otherkin" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>otherkin</span></a>, <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/plural" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>plural</span></a>, <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/queer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>queer</span></a>, <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/nonbinary" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nonbinary</span></a> and <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergent</span></a> <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/neurospicy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurospicy</span></a> folks making sure there is something for each other that doesn't rely on govt, corps or pharma. We can make historic differences if we have your support!</p><p><a href="https://ko-fi.com/athakitsune" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">ko-fi.com/athakitsune</span><span class="invisible"></span></a><br><a href="https://PayPal.me/athamanatha" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">PayPal.me/athamanatha</span><span class="invisible"></span></a><br><a href="https://liberapay.com/athamanatha" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">liberapay.com/athamanatha</span><span class="invisible"></span></a><br>Cashapp $Athamanatha<br>Patreon.com/vulpinedesigns<br>More methods on request.</p><p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://dice.camp/@thoughtpunks" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>thoughtpunks@dice.camp</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://bird.makeup/users/thoughtpunks" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>thoughtpunks@bird.makeup</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@mutual_ayyde" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>mutual_ayyde</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/mutualaid" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>mutualaid</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.lol/@MutualAidMember" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>MutualAidMember</span></a></span> </p><p><a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/moneyhelp" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>moneyhelp</span></a> <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/queermutualaid" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>queermutualaid</span></a> <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/fedihelp" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>fedihelp</span></a> <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/science" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>science</span></a> <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/homeless" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>homeless</span></a> <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/helpfolkssurvive" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>helpfolkssurvive</span></a> <a href="https://furry.engineer/tags/helpfolkslive2025" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>helpfolkslive2025</span></a></p>
Winter Wolves Games<p>the Winterwolves franchise sale is live on Steam:<br><a href="https://store.steampowered.com/curator/2717761/sale/WinterWolvesPublishersale" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">store.steampowered.com/curator</span><span class="invisible">/2717761/sale/WinterWolvesPublishersale</span></a><br>From long epic VN/RPG to games you can finish in a weekend. <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/yuri" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>yuri</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/yaoi" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>yaoi</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/visualnovel" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>visualnovel</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>poly</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/otome" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>otome</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/indiegame" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>indiegame</span></a> <br>please share! thanks 😚</p>
Janneke<p>This post &lt;<a href="https://pixelfed.social/p/stuffifound/844831816028127142" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">pixelfed.social/p/stuffifound/</span><span class="invisible">844831816028127142</span></a>&gt; possibly helped me do some self-diagnosis as suggested by <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://lgbtqia.space/@alice" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>alice</span></a></span> in their recently updated blog, &lt;<a href="https://codeberg.org/alicewatson/asd-self-dx.git" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">codeberg.org/alicewatson/asd-s</span><span class="invisible">elf-dx.git</span></a>&gt; via &lt;<a href="https://lgbtqia.space/@alice/110788887452809618" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">lgbtqia.space/@alice/110788887</span><span class="invisible">452809618</span></a>&gt;, also a good read.</p><p>@actuallyautistic <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/Autism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Autism</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/ASD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ASD</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/Barefooter" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Barefooter</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/Poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Poly</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/SelfDiagnosis" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfDiagnosis</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/SelfDX" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfDX</span></a> <a href="https://todon.nl/tags/SelfDxIsValid" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SelfDxIsValid</span></a></p>
QueeRomance Ink<p>QSFer C.R. Collins has a new queer fantasy book out (bi, gay, lesbian, poly, trans), Tales of Ardonna book seven: Fury’s Gift.</p><p>“No hero would ride over the hill. Except for us.”</p><p>It’s been fifty years since magery returned to the north. The citizens of the Sharren Accord have enjoyed decades of peace and prosperity. ...</p><p><a href="https://www.queerscifi.com/new-release-furys-gift-c-r-collins/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">queerscifi.com/new-release-fur</span><span class="invisible">ys-gift-c-r-collins/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/Fantasy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Fantasy</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/LGBTQBookstodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LGBTQBookstodon</span></a> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/lgbtqbookstodon" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>lgbtqbookstodon</span></a></span> @diversebooks <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/bookstodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bookstodon</span></a> @bookstodon <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/books" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>books</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/NewRelease" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NewRelease</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/Gay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Gay</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/Bisexual" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Bisexual</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/Lesbian" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Lesbian</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/Poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Poly</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/Transgender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Transgender</span></a></p>
QueeRomance Ink<p>QSFer D.G. Carothers has a new MM/poly fantasy paranormal book out: Cold Revenge.</p><p>Last time on Dragon War Chronicles, Danica’s motley crew took a break for mating and bonding, but the Cabal against them didn’t. Bullets flew, entire villages were destroyed, and they were no closer to finding out who was behind it all.</p><p><a href="https://www.queerscifi.com/new-release-cold-revenge-d-g-carothers/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">queerscifi.com/new-release-col</span><span class="invisible">d-revenge-d-g-carothers/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/GayRomance" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GayRomance</span></a> @LGBTQBookstodon @MMbookstodon @diversebooks <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/bookstodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bookstodon</span></a> @bookstodon <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/Books" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Books</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/Paranormal" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Paranormal</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/Fantasy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Fantasy</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/Gay" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Gay</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/Bisexual" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Bisexual</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/Intersex" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Intersex</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/Poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Poly</span></a></p>
Fenix<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://lgbtqia.space/@alice" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>alice</span></a></span> I mean this is difficult:</p><p>👉 (they/them), a: 🌈 <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Queer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Queer</span></a>, 🦜 <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Poly</span></a>, 🍳 <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Pansexual" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Pansexual</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/NotAGirl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NotAGirl</span></a></p><p>and the fact that others have to act on it. I hate it when other people are difficult and impose one's will on another.</p>
QueeRomance Ink<p>Ulysses reviews "The Sea Prince" by Elizabeth Schechter, The Coral Throne book 1:</p><p>I loved this book. I confess that, had I known it was MFM before I started it, I would have resisted. I am MM all the way, but Elizabeth Schechter gives us such a crew of wonderful characters that I fell in love with all of them and was willing to set my biases aside.</p><p><a href="https://www.queeromanceink.com/2025/06/24/review-the-sea-prince-elizabeth-schechter/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">queeromanceink.com/2025/06/24/</span><span class="invisible">review-the-sea-prince-elizabeth-schechter/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/Fantasy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Fantasy</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/LGBTQBookstodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LGBTQBookstodon</span></a> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/lgbtqbookstodon" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>lgbtqbookstodon</span></a></span> @diversebooks <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/bookstodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bookstodon</span></a> @bookstodon <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/books" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>books</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/BookReview" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BookReview</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/Historical" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Historical</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/Poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Poly</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/MFM" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MFM</span></a></p>
sevil<p>Should I <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/sew" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>sew</span></a> a three-tiered maxi hippie skirt in <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/asexual" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>asexual</span></a> colours for <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/pride" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>pride</span></a> ? I mean, the skirt would be grey, white, and purple, and I'd wear a black top with it. I could do little hearts or other things on it for <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/enby" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>enby</span></a> and <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>poly</span></a>. I think I like the idea...</p>
Rita Hayuni<p>Zum „Hauptgang“ werde ich sie dann mit einer TP verwöhnen. (Nr. 3 wird ihr Lieblingsvibrator sein.) Offen ist noch, wie die „Rollen“ im TP verteilt werden. Ggf. „wandert“ der Plug noch … Das sollte eigentlich zu mindestens einem Höhepunkt führen - egal, was/wo ... 🤗 <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>poly</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/bdsm" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bdsm</span></a></p>
Queer Sci Fi<p>QSFer Elizabeth Schechter has a new historical fantasy book out: The Sea Prince.</p><p>Once, Tarjiaan was the sixth prince of war-tossed Meradon. His dreams were captaining his own ship with the man he loved beside him, until a devastating attack leaves him the only surviving prince and heir to the throne. Fifteen years later ...</p><p><a href="https://www.queerscifi.com/new-release-the-sea-prince-elizabeth-schechter/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">queerscifi.com/new-release-the</span><span class="invisible">-sea-prince-elizabeth-schechter/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/Historical" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Historical</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/Fantasy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Fantasy</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/Poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Poly</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/MMF" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MMF</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/NewRelease" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NewRelease</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/queer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>queer</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/LGBTQ" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LGBTQ</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/LGBTQBookstodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LGBTQBookstodon</span></a> @LGBTQBookstodon @diversebooks <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/bookstodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bookstodon</span></a> @bookstodon <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/book" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>book</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.otherworldsink.com/tags/books" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>books</span></a></p>
ALT After Dark<p><a href="https://masto.thefword.club/tags/ThreeGoodThings" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ThreeGoodThings</span></a>:</p><p>1. Friends<br>2. Sleepovers<br>3. Strawberry-flavored mints that make you salivate uncontrollably</p><p>Bonus: Mirrored walls</p><p><a href="https://masto.thefword.club/tags/LGBTQ" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LGBTQ</span></a> <a href="https://masto.thefword.club/tags/Poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Poly</span></a> <a href="https://masto.thefword.club/tags/NSFW" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NSFW</span></a> <a href="https://masto.thefword.club/tags/Video" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Video</span></a> <a href="https://masto.thefword.club/tags/Nudity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Nudity</span></a> <a href="https://masto.thefword.club/tags/AltAfterDark" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AltAfterDark</span></a> <a href="https://masto.thefword.club/tags/AccessibilityIsHotAF" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AccessibilityIsHotAF</span></a></p>
tuni kinky (nsfw profile)<p><a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/tuni6" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tuni6</span></a> <a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/me" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>me</span></a> <a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/nsfw" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nsfw</span></a> <br><a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/poliamore" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>poliamore</span></a> <a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>poly</span></a><br><a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/preghiera" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>preghiera</span></a> <a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/lilith" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>lilith</span></a><br>ero in spiaggia ed indossavo un perizoma femminile trovato a settembre fra gli indumenti da portar via. Posso intuire di chi fosse, lo interpretai come un segno, un incoraggiamento.</p><p>Accovacciato e genuflesso per la foto in spiaggia, in quell'attimo ho pensato a te mia Dea. I brividi percorrevano il mio corpo, nella solitudine del primo mattino. </p><p>Allora e adesso ho comprendo che era un'invocazione in tuo onore mia Dea.</p>
tuni kinky (nsfw profile)<p><a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/tuni6" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tuni6</span></a> <a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/me" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>me</span></a> <a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/nsfw" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nsfw</span></a><br><a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/poliamore" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>poliamore</span></a> <a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>poly</span></a><br><a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/kinky" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>kinky</span></a> <a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/stories" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>stories</span></a> <a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/beach" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>beach</span></a><br>oggi in spiaggia un tipo si è incuriosito guardandomi mi ha chiesto che ti piace, gli ho risposto non lo so</p>
tuni kinky (nsfw profile)<p><a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/tuni6" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tuni6</span></a> <a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/me" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>me</span></a> <a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/nsfw" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nsfw</span></a><br><a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/poliamore" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>poliamore</span></a> <a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>poly</span></a><br><a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/kinky" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>kinky</span></a> <a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/stories" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>stories</span></a> <a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/beach" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>beach</span></a><br><a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/crossdressing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>crossdressing</span></a> <a href="https://kinkyelephant.com/tags/ass" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ass</span></a></p>
Sal<p>Had a lovely coffee/brunch date with my meta today. She is so lovely and brings such a needed ray of sunshine into our lives. This is what it's all about <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>poly</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>polyamory</span></a></p>
Accidental Anxiety Influencer<p>Here’s a little update on my ridiculous <a href="https://aus.social/tags/poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>poly</span></a> thruple situation. </p><p>Despite the new agreement thrashed out as mentioned earlier in this thread, the blast radius of A &amp; T’s ongoing chaos was not contained. </p><p>Mistakes continued to be made and on Thursday I was given the arse from my probationary new job, for insufficient engagement - the subtext being that my relationship drama was too intrusive and I was not excelling. </p><p>That was a final straw and I issued a wind-up order on the situation. Much drama ensued but I can’t afford to have relationship shit impact my career. </p><p>A arranged to go and tell T in person, but events got ahead of us and I was forced into doing it over WhatsApp myself. </p><p>Now, one of the things about text comms as opposed to a conversation is you can *scroll up* and review what’s been said in detail. After a fairly heated argument with T, I did just that. I scrolled up. </p><p>And I started recognising some of his tactics. </p><p>Gaslighting, blame shifting, projection. </p><p>We’ve been fucking played by a manipulator. He’s been deliberately running a divide and conquer campaign. He’s spotted weaknesses in both of us and exploited them. </p><p>He’s needled my anxiety repeatedly, as a way of inciting conflict between myself and A. He’s encouraged and stoked A’s justifiable dislike of my drinking habits to likewise stoke conflict (and has literally been the guy who said to me “oh you stay at the pub a bit longer, you deserve to relax”). He’s lovebombed the living shit out of her, and he’s deliberately bought her a gift that reminded of a previous traumatic conflict. And then laughed it off. He’s definitely exploited her ADHD impulsivity and her Oppositional Defiance.</p><p>He’s made himself a fixture in our weekly trivia nights, despite confessing to hate it and blaming my competitiveness for making him anxious, driving a wedge between me and A. </p><p>Every time I’ve needed a break and some space, he’s been the one pushing back against it, and he’s persuasive. He’s managed to talk me out of severe anxiety - thereby gaining trust - before mere hours later needling it again - stoking conflict. </p><p>We’ve got to breakup points where I’ve wanted to throw A out, and he’s talked it back down, before repeating the exact behaviour that led to the bustup in the first place. I have zero idea what he’s been pulling on A in private but I can’t imagine it being any less intense.</p>
James Roberts.<p>A friend of mine, who is not <a href="https://noods.fun/tags/polyamorous" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>polyamorous</span></a> is considering dating someone who is. I recommended a book about polyamory to them. They kind of dismissed it, because they don't see themselves as polyamorous. If you date someone who is polyam, you are in a polyam relationship regardless how many partners you have. People would do better to recognize it up front. <a href="https://noods.fun/tags/poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>poly</span></a> <a href="https://noods.fun/tags/polyam" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>polyam</span></a> <a href="https://noods.fun/tags/polamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>polamory</span></a></p>
Paul-Vincent Roll (he/him)<p>Added a proper introduction sheet to the app now and redesigned a couple of things! <a href="https://whisper.tf/tags/swift" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>swift</span></a> <a href="https://whisper.tf/tags/swiftUI" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>swiftUI</span></a> <a href="https://whisper.tf/tags/iosdev" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>iosdev</span></a> <a href="https://whisper.tf/tags/relationship" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>relationship</span></a> <a href="https://whisper.tf/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>polyamory</span></a> <a href="https://whisper.tf/tags/poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>poly</span></a> <a href="https://whisper.tf/tags/nonmonogamy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nonmonogamy</span></a> <a href="https://whisper.tf/tags/monogamy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>monogamy</span></a></p><p>Get the beta here: <a href="https://testflight.apple.com/join/4drmtcfm" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">testflight.apple.com/join/4drm</span><span class="invisible">tcfm</span></a></p>
Paul-Vincent Roll (he/him)<p>iPad support is now available in the beta! You can join here <a href="https://testflight.apple.com/join/4drmtcfm" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">testflight.apple.com/join/4drm</span><span class="invisible">tcfm</span></a></p><p><a href="https://whisper.tf/tags/relationshipmenu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>relationshipmenu</span></a> <a href="https://whisper.tf/tags/relationship" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>relationship</span></a> <a href="https://whisper.tf/tags/relationship" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>relationship</span></a> <a href="https://whisper.tf/tags/polyamory" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>polyamory</span></a> <a href="https://whisper.tf/tags/poly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>poly</span></a> <a href="https://whisper.tf/tags/nonmonogamy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nonmonogamy</span></a> <a href="https://whisper.tf/tags/monogamy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>monogamy</span></a> <a href="https://whisper.tf/tags/swift" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>swift</span></a> <a href="https://whisper.tf/tags/swiftUI" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>swiftUI</span></a> <a href="https://whisper.tf/tags/iosdev" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>iosdev</span></a> <a href="https://whisper.tf/tags/ipad" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ipad</span></a> <a href="https://whisper.tf/tags/iphone" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>iphone</span></a> <a href="https://whisper.tf/tags/pleaseboost" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>pleaseboost</span></a></p>