Guess who is exploiting and taking advantage of my vulnerability and trust? My uncle. He can use any of my mistakes that he finds to justify bullying and mocking me. I don't even have money to pay for his liquid petroleum gas for cooking. I am really sad, and no one cares. I am still a student with so many debts that I can't pay. It's around RM50,000. What does he expect? Taking advantage of me? Using my inability to pay his bills and for LPG, and when I'm at my worst, it's time for him to kick me out of his house. I am actually homeless. But that terribly destroyed house doesn't count. My father wanted me to stay at my uncle's house for stable electricity. #FamilyIssues #Struggle #Support #Homeless #StudentLife #Debt #EmotionalAbuse #Bullying #Vulnerability #Trust #Hope #Vent #MentalHealth #IAmTheProduct #MutualAid #NoOneCares

We Can Hurt the Ones We Love When Recovering From Abuse
When recovering from abuse - particularly abuse from someone using narcissistic techniques - it's common for the recovering person to end up hurting the people who are in the healthiest relationships with them.
https://ideatrash.net/2020/03/we-can-hurt-the-ones-we-love-when-recovering-from-abuse.html?feed_id=466&_unique_id=672a75f3bae87
#abuse #emotionalabuse #narcissists #recovery

It Ain't Victim Blaming When I Choose To Be The Victim
You always have a choice.
https://ideatrash.net/2021/08/it-aint-victim-blaming-when-i-choose-to-be-the-victim.html?feed_id=454&_unique_id=67237c443872b
#abuse #boundaries #emotionalabuse

Traumas we tend to invalidate:
- #bullying
- #infertility
- #ChronicIllness
- #EmotionalAbuse
- #burnout
- multiple losses
- #FinancialInsecurity
- witnessing #violence
- #infidelity
- being #unemployed
- #abuse from authority figures
- breakup or #divorce
- #ForcedMigration
- undiagnosed #MentalHealth problems